How to Have Great Sex! With Vanessa + Xander Marin

Jun 1, 2023

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander join PRETTYSMART to discuss their mission to help people have more (and better!) sex. They share: 

• What made them decide to start working together and helping others improve their sex lives.
  
• What is off limits for them when it comes to talking about sex publicly.
  
• Their philosophy on why sex is so important in relationships.
  
• What it really means to have great sex.
  
• Why we are all afraid to talk about sex. 
  
• How sex changes as we age. 
  
• The two different sex drive types and how they impact our sex lives. 
  
• Ways to open up to your partner about sex (and prompts to help you feel more comfortable doing so!) 
  
• How to get your partner to initiate more. 
  
• If it’s normal to squirt or not during sex. 
  
• How to bring new relationship energy back to your sex life.
  
• What to do if you’ve been faking your orgasms. 
  
• How to communicate any sexual fantasies you might have. 
  
• The impact the porn industry has had on our sex lives and how we all think about sex. 
  
• Why you should reframe the way you think about the number of sexual partners you’ve had.
  

Follow Vanessa and Xander on IG Here 

Buy their book “Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life” Here 

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